//whispers back//
*gigantic hug* You are not a terrible friend at all - actually the opposite. You're a human being like the rest of us, and sometimes things just come in the way. I tend to forget birthdays as well
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I completely understand you! When someone I know has birthday I push everything aside to do the gift.
The most important thing right now, is that you relax (DO NOT PRESS YOURSELF) so you can recover and be well again.
We'll be okay dear. Your health comes first.